Amsterdam Memories and Why to Travel Spontaneously

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Arriving into Holland

The travel fever is upon me again. It is a fever that insists on recurring despite my best intentions to starve it and it seems to be in full swing this summer. We all travel for deeply personal reasons, and I am generally one to love the sights and sounds and all the history and excitement about the place – but my one day visit of Holland’s memorable city of Amsterdam had very little to do with scenery and everything to do with watching life go by on a lazy Saturday in October of 2007.

“Travel is more than the seeing of sights; it is a change that goes on, deep and permanent, in the ideas of living.” – Miriam Beard

We had one free day in Belgium and having thoroughly enjoyed Brussels, we opted for a drive into Amsterdam. In fact, I turned down a chance to visit Paris again, one of the jewels among my heart’s top destinations, to set foot into Holland for the first time. Traveling the world is outlandishly easy these days – there is no reasonable excuse for me to ever stop doing it, not when I think about the days when one would board a ship for a few weeks to cross over the Atlantic ocean and a balloon ride was the closest thing to humans flying – if only Leonardo da Vinci had lived to see his dream of flying become a daily chore for us mere mortals someday – and traveling across countries in Europe is as smooth and lackadaisical as a summer breeze (Getting out of Brussels notwithstanding on that last comment. The most confusing road system in all of Europe kept sending my expert international navigating driver, the husband, into endless loops and it’s a miracle we ever made it to Amsterdam that morning but I digress!).

So off we went to visit Amsterdam, knowing not what to expect and having no preconceived notions or prepared knowledge about our destination, something that is very much unlike our style and yet something which suited our mood beautifully at the time. We simply loved it! To wake up one morning and decide to visit a foreign city simply from a voice whispering the promises of adventure, you can do this in Europe on the spur of the moment. Simple as it may be, I never forget the privilege to cross borders and meet new cultures and see how life is lived in the most or least ordinary corners of the world.

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Entering Amsterdam with this mindset of ease and calm, free of all expectations, deadlines and goals, we simply followed our hearts that day. Funny enough, I remember this day distinctly well whereas I need to refer to my journals for the well-planned days in other cities. There is often little logic where memories are concerned and this one for a change is working in my favor; therefore I shall recount these random but crystal clear highlights here for us before I suffer from another memory loss!

A Culture in love with Biking

Bike loves paradise

The Dutch are brilliant when it comes to the mode of transportation. I am not a big bike lover; I just love the idea of biking and I have sweet memories of biking when I was little. To bike as a standard mode of transportation is both traditional and modern, a wisdom of the ages put into daily practice by a smart culture. We saw bikers but we saw no helmets. We saw traffic and crowds but we saw only peace in the streets that were shared by pedestrians, dogs, bikers, trolleys, carriages with horses, and cars! How was it that everyone knew their turn and respected it? Orderliness, respect, harmony, those are the essential elements of life in Amsterdam.

Melted Brie with Honey

Of this I wish I had a photograph to share but even so, it would not do it justice. I remember the café, the tall skinny waiter, the item in the menu and a simple and delectable combination for us to remember over the years: Melted Brie with warm honey on top, served with two pieces of bread and a yummy espresso. At least, I rejoice in the fact that I need no photograph to remember the taste. Our other senses can more than make up for the visual at times if we only let them. We remember this simple lunch more than we would have a fancy cuisine.

Watching life-size Chess Game

Watching chess in Holland

My Dad taught me how to play chess when I was very young and I wish I played more often. I do not have the patience of a Saint like him, nor his brilliant game strategy but seeing chess in any shape, form or size, warms my heart. It is a game of intellect, planning, and quiet rivalry of the minds. Seeing two men play chess on a Saturday morning with many more just watching speaks to the pace of life and the choice of activities here in the beautiful Amsterdam.

Cleanliness and Politeness

Clean beautiful city of Amsterdam

Amsterdam was so clean I was certain a giant Hercules of sorts appeared every night to scrub the buildings from top to bottom, sweep and then wash the streets, clean all the extra leaves from trees and allow not so much as a single piece of garbage to run wild with the wind. How breathtakingly clean this city was, how colorful and orderly and crowded yet far from loud and annoying. I long to return if only to be among such clean structures and foliage. I pay tribute to the Dutch residents for their acute sense of creating the most appealing atmosphere in the heart of Amsterdam.

A Canal Runs through It

Quiet canal waters

Water adds a unique dimension to any place and the historical canals running through Amsterdam are no exception. The calm and the beauty of these near still waters holding the countless boats and water taxis afloat affected our mood even though we never set foot in the water. The richness of color, the quietly operating machines, the breeze, the sound of water, this city is made for calming the nerves and enriching the senses. Everywhere your eyes travel, you feel the contagious harmony around you. If you lived here, would you be in tuned to this peace too?

A Longing to Return to Amsterdam

In this manner, we spent an unforgettable day walking, observing, listening, eating and taking in life on a lovely Saturday in October in Amsterdam. No plans, no sights to see, no museum runs, no checklist and no exhaustion. We traveled a little differently for one day and we loved it. We also found a city to which we long to return. Perhaps with a checklist and with a plan to visit its most beloved monuments and treasures next time but never forgetting that our first visit to Amsterdam was an unplanned one and our first memories are of a calm, harmonious, orderly, and colorful city and a culture which recognizes the simple pleasures of a healthy happy life.

“Travel and change of place impart new vigor to the mind.” – Lucius Seneca, a Roman philosopher

Share your thoughts

Ah travel dreams, travel plans, travel memories! Do you travel just for adventure or always with a purpose and a plan? What is the ideal time to spend at your favorite destination spots? What about the ideal time to dedicate to a new city, an hour, a day, a week? Is there a place to which you yearn to return, if only to see whether the magic of that first visit can repeat itself all over again?

Longing to Return to Holland

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1 Uzma June 15, 2010 at 9:38 AM

Hi Farnoosh. Great article. You begin it so beautifully. It is indeed our privilege to simply travel. To decide and go. Searching, longing, feeling. The Miriam Beard quote you have is so apt. Traveling is something our souls do, trying to find home, only realizing that home is everywhere :-) Pico Iyer, the travel writer says we have a global soul. Belonging nowhere, at home everywhere.

Liked the article, Thank you.

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2 Farnoosh June 15, 2010 at 11:57 AM

Hi Uzma, happy you enjoyed it, what a loyal reader you are!!! And what a brilliant approach you have to traveling. At home everywhere, belonging nowhere. I love it! Thank you for reading and for sharing your thoughts.

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3 Jean Sarauer June 15, 2010 at 10:17 AM

I like to ‘plan loosely.’ I really enjoy doing some planning because I often discover interesting things in the research process. Plus, I love daydreaming about a place I’m planning to visit. But, I don’t like having a fixed itinerary. I like being able to wander and spend more time at places that resonate with me.

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4 Farnoosh June 15, 2010 at 11:58 AM

Hi Jean,
Planning loosely is probably the best balance. I would say it depends on our destination how much we plan. We are never traveling again without booking a hotel room after a bad experience in London for instance but such is life and the sense of adventure may just get the best of us again someday! Thanks for letting me know what you thought of the post!

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5 Katie June 15, 2010 at 2:56 PM

Lovely, lovely. I felt like I was there. Next time, I’m coming with you. The brilliance of the spontaneous day makes me wonder if we can’t live life a little more like that, soaking up the sights and sounds, less planning and more being. I have just been bitten by the travel bug, big time!

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6 Farnoosh June 15, 2010 at 3:43 PM

Katie, I can’t for the life of me get any of my friends to travel with us – so we would more than love company. Less planning, more being. I am going to make it a motto for the week! Thanks for making me smile here!

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7 Hulbert Lee June 15, 2010 at 3:44 PM

Whoa… I’m jealous that you got to go to Amsterdam! Those pictures look really neat and I like how you described the entire city and how clean it is there. The places that I have traveled or been in my life have usually been somewhat foggy, with the exception of the San Francisco bay area which was beautiful.

I usually just travel for a purpose. For example, I once went to Hong Kong to get my visa extended so I could stay longer in Taiwan. I thought that place was really cool; I enjoyed watching the skyscrapers. I don’t really have an ideal time to spend though; I’m a person who just goes with the flow. Maybe in the future I will dedicate an ideal time to a new city or place. I really want to go to China or Japan because I was there for only a little bit; but Europe seems pretty cool as well as I always hear stories but have never had a chance to visit there. Maybe one day.

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8 Farnoosh June 15, 2010 at 9:14 PM

Hulbert, you had better have Europe as a top destination in your list. I do love Japan, and every time I visited (total of 4 so far, each around 10 days or longer) and it remains a beautiful mystery to me. Hong Kong was very nice but very loud, well worth the effort to visit nonetheless….Europe is a different world all its own and I look forward to hearing your insights when you make that trip over the pond! :)

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9 Emiel June 15, 2010 at 4:00 PM

Dear Farnoosh,

Great story! I love how a day can unexpectedly turn into something you will never forget…

Of course I also love it because you’re writing about the capital of my home country, the Netherlands. But you touched on a point that I believe is very typical for Amsterdam. There are not many big cities where you can experience that.

The way you described your day in Amsterdam is exactly how I enjoy Amsterdam the most: just watching people living their lives and even be part of it. Amsterdam with its narrow streets, its beautiful canals and its diversity of people is one the best places to really be embraced by history and today’s life at the same time.

Yes, I’m a sentimental idiot, but those moments really inspire me on my travels (I even wrote a post on my own blog about this). I’m lucky that I need to visit Amsterdam many times in the months to come. In March next year Amsterdam will host an event that I am organising. People from all over the world will join us. I’m sure they will feel humbled by the serenity of the place while at the same time enjoying the vibrant, yet Dutch way of life..

Emiel

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10 Farnoosh June 15, 2010 at 9:15 PM

Hi Emiel, my dear Dutch friend, how nice of you to share your thoughts – and I find it most interesting that even you find Amsterdam to be an enjoyable, vibrant city. You are indeed lucky that your travels take you to such a jewel of a city and here’s hoping that we can cross paths someday, anywhere in the Netherlands or perhaps in the city to which I dedicated this post. Very kind of you to comment here!!! Thank you!

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11 Lance June 15, 2010 at 5:22 PM

Farnoosh,
I love an adventure, unplanned and completely unknown. There is something about that which can bring a connection to that moment. And as much as I love an adventure – I find that most of our trips are planned.

One that holds very special meaning to me is a four day rafting trip in the western U.S. a couple of years ago. It was planned – and it was also unplanned and an adventure. And the whole time holds special meaning to my family and I….

Your trip to Holland sounds wonderful!! And – you have the BEST pictures!!

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12 Farnoosh June 15, 2010 at 9:17 PM

Lance, I thought as much; you seem to be the adventurous kind and I am sure you leave room for play even if you plan some. I am not as adventurous as “rafting” and all those crazy sports, but I am in awe of those pursuing them, and always delighted to hear of others’ travel stories so thank you for sharing. I am glad you liked the photos. I had to pick 5 or so out of 150!!!

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13 Sibyl - alternaview June 15, 2010 at 11:29 PM

Farnoosh: Thanks for the enjoyment. I felt like I was having a great day on vacation. I think sometimes you really do just have to explore and be open to whatever experiences come your way. Thanks for the inspiration.

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14 Farnoosh June 16, 2010 at 6:06 AM

Sibyl, I need to follow your and my own advice just more and more – we never know what fun experience lays ahead. Thank you for saying hi!!!

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15 Laura Neff - Life Leadership Coach June 16, 2010 at 11:53 AM

Hi Farnoosh!

What a *lovely* description of your adventurous, free-floating day in Amsterdam! I love how your senses seemed so wide open, ready to soak up every ounce of delight and experience. Beautiful!!

Two of my most memorable travels experiences involved MUCH unplanned time. In 2002, my then-beau (now husband) Robert and I traveled the US and western Canada for 10 months in a school bus we bought and converted into an awesome RV! The purpose was the adventure, not any particular destination. It was a landmark year in my life and our lives together! And in early 2006, I traveled to Thailand solo, spending six weeks volunteering at a wildlife rescue centre, after which Robert came over and we spent 3.5 weeks following our noses (and the advice of other travelers) all over Thailand and into Cambodia as well. This second trip had wonderful “spacious planning,” where we had a few destinations in mind along the way, and even made a few reservations here and there, but mostly we went where our interests and findings led us, and that way, we were always discovering off-the-beaten-path places in addition to the more touristy, must-see locales.

And it’s funny…this is the second time this week that Amsterdam has come up for me. Hmmmm…maybe that’s next! :)

Thank you for such a delicious post. Big hugs!
Laura

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16 Farnoosh June 16, 2010 at 12:05 PM

Laura, how envious I am of such a LONG adventure – I long to go away for that long!!! Funny how that sounds but it’s no play on words. I mean it. The longer travels let us really become one with the place and the culture and the people (as much as possible) and to really shed the tourist layer….Thank you thank you for sharing!! Good thing I am headed to Singapore and Bali in September…..a visit to Asia is never without adventure!

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17 Phil - Less Ordinary Living June 16, 2010 at 12:18 PM

Brilliant article Farnoosh -

Whenever I travel I go with the flow. We love to just explore, soak in the environment wherever we are, and find offbeat things to do. It is great to stumble on the unexpected.

I haven’t been to Amsterdam (even though it is not far away) although good friends just moved there, so hopefully soon. Sounds idyllic. The brie with honey sold it for me!

Great stuff,

Phil

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18 Farnoosh June 16, 2010 at 12:23 PM

Phil, you are in the UK yes? Another country I need to explore (London alone is not sufficient, much as I love that city)! And remember, it was not just honey with brie, it was WARM honey and warm brie…YUM!
And oh yes, great to stumble upon the unexpected. Here’s wishing heaps of that in the future for all of us. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Phil!

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19 Abubakar Jamil June 16, 2010 at 2:15 PM

The way you wrote the article made me experience Amsterdam myself – sitting here on my chair with a laptop on my lap). :)

Traveling is a life long yearning for me too and I like to go about it unplanned. The last time was in Mach 2008 when I visited Sao Paulo, Brazil. Although it was a business trip but still staying there for 12 days was much more than just business and I enjoyed it a lot.

If I went into the details I am sure the word count of my comment will exceed the word count of your post so I’ll leave it at that. :)

As Robert Louis Stevenson put it, “I travel not to go anywhere, but to go. I travel for travel’s sake. The great affair is to move.”

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20 Farnoosh June 16, 2010 at 3:32 PM

Abubakar, I am going to steal Robert Stevenson’s quote. It is so very much ME! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Brazil has been on my list of dream places to visit but I hesitate to go to Sao Paulo from safety perspective. Did you feel safe during your business trip? Perhaps you can write a travel blog post on your blog about your adventures. In the meanwhile, thanks again for being here!

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21 Abubakar Jamil June 16, 2010 at 3:52 PM

Do visit Brazil. Amazing place indeed.

I did feel safe although many friends warned me about the street crime there but nothing of the sort happened. Probably because I had local contacts/business friends to accompany me most of the time and guided me if I wanted to go some place alone.

When you go to Brazil don’t forget to taste Caipirinha and Guarana. I still miss Guarana. :)

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22 Farnoosh June 16, 2010 at 7:54 PM

It’s on the list now! And I eat adventurously too, thanks Abubakar!

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23 Joshua Noerr June 16, 2010 at 2:18 PM

Farnoosh, I noticed you mentioned planning loosely in your comments. I think this is a great term. Putting everything into stone takes all of the fun out of the trip and you end up missing that local flavor that is so unique about places.

This exact idea is what led me from a 10 stay in Thailand to living there for 7 months. I simply let things happen, and it was one of the most amazing experiences ever.

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24 Farnoosh June 16, 2010 at 3:33 PM

Joshua, another adventure seeker among us? We allow for flexibility in our plans but we never just get up and go without any plans. Amsterdam was one of those whims and it turned out so lovely – but it was for a short period (one day). I am not as brave as you but hope to be someday – Thailand for 7 months. Did you see elephants? Did you love it? Did you write about it in your travel journals? Thank you for sharing!

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25 Armen Shirvanian June 16, 2010 at 3:39 PM

Hi Farnoosh.

I certainly like that large chess game going down. I would play chess there if I was there at the time. It’s cool having an audience and being able to walk between pieces and view from afar as well.

The river is cool because I can’t think of any local areas to me where a river randomly runs through the city. Water is the refresher of all and we are always glad to see it.

That melted Brie with honey sure sounds terrible but I guess you liked it.

Wonderful experience and description. Based on that one quote, travel sure does change our perception of what living is about and should be about.

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26 Farnoosh June 16, 2010 at 3:49 PM

Hi Armen, chess is fine especially with life size pieces! And I bet walking between the pieces helps one think – movement is activity for the mind as well as body, no? The question is: Are you any good at chess?
You are envious of the brie and honey – I totally understand ;) !
Thank you Armen, you make me smile and you always add thoughts and humor to my posts. So nice to see you here!

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27 Armen Shirvanian June 16, 2010 at 4:13 PM

Farnoosh,

I think I am great at chess. There was a time when I would play it quite often. One time a long time ago also at a local bookstore they would have chess night and one time I finally went and played someone and it was cool. They don’t have it anymore but it is worth pointing out. I lost to Luciano from Litemind.com online once but it was due to time running out so that is not a standard defeat but it counts.

I’d gladly pass on Brie and honey but I would gladly take crepes. I will probably eat crepes soon now that you got me thinking about crepes even though they aren’t mentioned anywhere here. I will probably get a strawberry crepe, or some other fruit one. Smart people get to savor the best foods. I drink water and eat healthy stuff so basically all food tastes good and then occasional outside foods tastes good too. People eating unhealthy food or who are obese miss out bigtime.

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28 Zengirl @ Heart and Mind June 17, 2010 at 1:22 AM

Hi Farnoosh,

Sounds like a wonderful trip memories. We just got back from a local trip and had a great fun, but I missed my home and I am glad to be back home again.

Pictures and ticket stubs from places visit in special box is always nice for us for creating memories.

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29 Farnoosh June 17, 2010 at 4:54 AM

Zengirl, welcome back and oh missing home! That’s another post altogether – whatever I do and wherever I go, I miss my bed and my house tremendously. And of course mementos are key to keeping memories alive. thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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30 Tess The Bold Life June 17, 2010 at 8:59 AM

My niece spent her honeymoon with her new hubs meeting his family…all artists. Wow her photos were amazing and her father-in-law art…stunning.

I have a daughter that flies with Southwest airlines. So my hubs and I fly free anywhere SW flies. They partner with other airlines which allows us to fly other places as well. Where do we like to go. Right back to Michigan to see our family and friends…when we can go anywhere in the world.

The only sanity I can make of this is “our family and friends are our world.” Love your photos. Thanks for sharing your travels. It’s so inspiring.

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31 Farnoosh June 17, 2010 at 10:42 AM

Hi Tess, a honeymoon with family? Definitely a new approach to a lover’s time alone but I do love family (and friends) so I may be persuaded too. Are they in Amsterdam then?
Flying for free is wonderful but please tell me you do go further than Michigan…. Good friend are hard to break free from and so, I love the phrase you add. Thank you for the compliment on the photos. More encouragement to move up from this point and shoot to a pro cam!!!!
Thanks for your thoughts here!

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32 Roman Soluk June 18, 2010 at 7:14 AM

Nice post, Farnoosh! And very inspiring for a travel. Besides, I also like the idea of biking! ;) Thanks!

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33 Farnoosh June 30, 2010 at 9:50 AM

How did I miss you here, Roman? Thank you so much!!! Biking is awesome, especially since I just started spinning / cycling class :) !

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34 Lonneke June 18, 2010 at 12:28 PM

Hi Farnoosh,
I just stepped off my bike with 2 kids and a couple of enormous grocery bags when I sat down with my computer and accidentally got on your site (how dutch is that:-) While living in Rotterdam, I frequently visit Amsterdam and I loved to read your comments. Looking through another’s eyes gives a nice perspective on everyday life…
Thanks,
Lonneke

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35 Farnoosh June 18, 2010 at 12:34 PM

Wonderful story, Lonneke, how nice to hear from a Dutch friend and how serendipitous indeed! I shall visit Amsterdam again very soon and I am very happy that you found us here. Enjoy the biking in beautiful weather and thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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36 Raam Dev June 25, 2010 at 2:17 PM

Wow, Amsterdam looks and sounds beautiful! I love chess (but like yourself, I don’t play nearly enough!) — that lifesize game looks incredible. I’m definitely going to make it there one of these days! Thanks for the wonderful post! :)

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37 Farnoosh June 25, 2010 at 2:47 PM

Raam, my dear world traveler friend, Amsterdam should be a piece of cake compared to your adventures in India and Vietnam. Here’s hoping there’s a partner waiting to kick your butt in chess at that very game when you arrive in Amsterdam, and double-hoping I am there to watch you turn it around at the last minute. Thanks for being here!

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38 Negar June 30, 2010 at 8:34 AM

Farnoosh jan,

I needed a mental break from the work I was doing (at work) and of course came to your site to read another post because you always have a way of making me forget completely what I am doing and focus on whatever it is you wrote about. I was not disappointed at all – you totally took me away and reenergized me! I felt like I just took a mini-vacation! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Wonderful article and beautiful photos (per usual!). OK, now I’m disappointed because I have to go back to work…..! ;)

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39 Farnoosh June 30, 2010 at 9:51 AM

Negar jan, I must have been quite a distraction – and this is just Amsterdam on the screen, wait til you set foot and visit with your own eyes someday – something I am sure you will do! I am thrilled to be your little energizer bunny :) Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!!

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40 Nisha April 7, 2011 at 11:07 AM

Like your blog and some of the previous comments have said, I also love the idea of being spontaneous. This is something that makes life more exciting and enjoyable! I hope to go travelling soon too !
Last Fabulous Post by Nisha was Devon Caravan holidays

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41 Farnoosh April 8, 2011 at 12:00 AM

Hi dear Nisha, welcome to prolific living! I sincerely hope for you to go traveling soon too and when you do, a balance of planning and spontaneity will make it sweet and memorable. Thank you for your lovely comment! Come back anytime.

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